Listen to Every Episode of the Career Coaching with John Podcast – Show Notes & Coaching Insights
Work isn’t supposed to feel like this.
You’re smart. Capable. Maybe even successful on paper.
But inside, you’re stuck—burned out, overlooked, or quietly dreading Mondays.
Career Coaching with John is for anyone wrestling with career change, toxic jobs, shaky confidence, or the creeping fear that you’ve outgrown the life you built. Hosted by career coach John Fialkowski, each episode blends honest insight, practical tools, and unexpected stories from history and culture—to help you rethink what work could be.
This isn’t hustle culture.
It’s not woo-woo manifestation.
It’s about figuring out how to move forward—your way.
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Episode Listing
Episode Twelve - This is Freedom 55
Synopsis:
Remember the Freedom 55 dream? Retire early, live free, enjoy the good life. In Thailand, Kasikornbank has reimagined that dream — except now the cut-off is 45, and it’s not about freedom, it’s about AI and spreadsheets. What looks like early retirement is really a story about cost-cutting, technology, and assumptions about age and value.
In this episode, John breaks down what KBank is doing, pushes back on the easy narratives, and explores what it really means when work, technology, and human value collide. Along the way, he challenges the assumptions we make about ourselves and each other — the same ones that feed doubt about who we are and what we bring to the table. The episode ends with a piece of homework: What’s the one thing you’d like people to know about you?
Themes: Nostalgia vs. Reality, AI as Tool vs. Threat, Ageism Reframed, The Broken Ladder, The Absurd “Life Map”, Technology & Human Potential, Adaptability as the Human Edge, Self-Doubt & Personal Brand, Challenging Assumptions
Links:
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Sources:
Retired at 45+, can you find a new job? - Warunrat Katmat, Bangkok Biz News
KBank Offers Early Retirement at 45, Shaking Thai Job Market - ASEAN Now
Modern life design concepts when starting to retire at the age of 45 - Brand Buffet
Boomer revolution: That Freedom 55 guy is still working ... and he's from Victoria - Michael D. Reid - Times Colonist
Fridges And Washing Machines Liberated Women, Study Suggests - Universite de Montreal - ScienceDaily
Original Freedom 55 Commercial -
Music:
Smooth Chill Jazz by AllWorldMusic from Pixabay
Intermission:
A Bit Redundant Gagmesharkoff from Free Music Archives
Outro:
Bebop Jazz Bedroom: LOPKERJO from Free Music Archives
Episode Eleven: Let's Declare Ourselves Emperor
Guest: Sharon Secondus Theme: Networking, Personal Brand, and Building Your Empire From Scratch
Episode Summary
In this episode, we explore what it really takes to build anetwork and personal brand—especially when you’re starting from scratch.Whether you’ve moved cities, changed industries, or simply feel stuck and underappreciated in your current role, this conversation is for you.
Inspired by the strange and bold story of Emperor Norton I—a failed businessman who reinvented himself into a San Francisco icon—we dig into the power of self-declaration, relationship-building, and showing up with purpose.
My guest, Sharon Secondus, has done just that: navigating career transitions, moving continents, and cultivating a network built not on self-promotion, but sincerity. Together, we explore how brand and network combine to create not just visibility, but power—and how anyone can start, no matter where they are.
About our Guest:
Sharon Secondus is a professional in the healthcare technology space with a background in Health Informatics, she is passionate about transforming complex healthcare data into actionable insights that measurably improve patient care and growth strategy. Also a 2-time former international student in England /US and now mentoring others from a global perspective. She is a dedicated mentor and coach, leading impactful professional development and personal branding workshops at Seemenow33. Through her guidance, international students navigate their journeys with confidence, turning challenges into inspiring growth opportunities.
Learn more at Seemenow33
Music By: Ketsa Theme:
Smooth Chill Jazz by AllWorldMusic from Pixabay
Intermission:
Soul Epic by Ketsa from Free Music Archives
Jazz For The Rain by Ketsa from Free Music Archives
Closing:
Importance by Ketsa from Free Music Archives Links:
Visit johnfialkowski.com to learn how you can support the show
Follow John on Linkedin @johnfialkowski
Your Challenge This Week
Write down one thing you want a stranger to know about you. Submit it in the comments. I’ll tell you mine, if you tell me yours.
Episode Ten: My Own Personal Guru
What do you do when the biggest obstacle in your business… is you?
In this episode, I put the Good John in front of the Bad John—the version of me that avoids, delays, and quietly convinces himself that effort is pointless. Along the way, we talk gurus, comfort zones, and a little New Age weirdness. (Yes, Sai Baba makes an appearance.)
I’m joined by career coach Abdelaziz Bourassi, all the way from New Caledonia, for a conversation about alignment, ambition, and getting out of your own way—even when you’re not "ready."
If you’ve been stuck, circling the same problems, or wondering if it’s time to shift how you show up in your work—this one’s for you.
🧭 Free resources from Abdelaziz:
Escape the 9-5 Trap: Steps to Transition to a Fulfilling Career
Free Strategy call for the first five listeners
🎧 Music by Holizna - Support him on Patreon
Music:
Theme: Smooth Chill Jazz by AllWorldMusic from Pixabay
Intermission: Retro Synth By Holizna from Free Music Archive
Classic by Holizna from Free Music Archive
Outro: Night Driving by Holizna from Free Music Archive
Episode Nine - When Hard Work Stops Working
You can lift it. But should you? This episode explores the hidden cost of capability—how strength, hustle, and good intentions can trap us in outdated versions of success. Featuring utopian French socialists, Romanian dictators, and one very tired admissions officer, we look at the shift from doing the work… to defining the work.
Music:Theme: Smooth Chill Jazz by AllWorldMusic from Pixabay
Intermission: Jungle Waves by DIMMYSADfrom Pixabay
Outro: Vintage Rock byDIMMYSADfrom Pixabay
Episode Eight - Here for a Good Time, Not a Long Time
What if the job you’re in isn’t forever—and that’s okay?
In this episode, John explores the value of temporary work, misaligned roles, and contract gigs that aren’t your dream job. From polishing cars at the auto show to managing a bike shop, to listening to Trooper blast from a truck stereo—this one’s about showing up, experimenting, and knowing when it’s time to move on.
You’ll hear about:
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Why “low-stakes” jobs are the perfect place to take bold risks
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How interviews can reveal more about you and them
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What it means to leave a job with confidence, not just frustration
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And yes… the legend of Billy Bronco
This one’s for the young worker, the burnt-out manager, and anyone stuck in a role that isn’t quite right. You’re not here to play it safe. You’re here to find out who you are—and where you’re going next.
Music Credits:
Theme: Music by AllWorldMusic from Pixabay
Intermission: Music by NicholasPanek from Pixabay
Outro: Music by nickpanek620from Pixabay
Episode Seven - The Demographic Gridlock
In Part Two of Scarcity in a Land of Plenty, we shift the lens from tech to demographics — and ask why, in a world that claims there's a labour shortage, so many people still feel stuck.
From Baby Boomer capital preservation to Millennial risk aversion, this episode explores how wealth, leadership, and opportunity have gotten tangled across generations. We talk about politics, anger, and the Charlton Heston end-of-the-world trilogy you didn’t know you needed.
Because this isn’t just an economic story — it’s a story about movement, about why we’re frozen, and what it might take to break free.
Music Credits
Theme: Music by AllWorldMusic from Pixabay
Intermission: Musicby Electronic-Sensesfrom Pixabay
Episode Six - A Shot Across the Bow
When a talented employee reaches out across her company to explore new possibilities, her initiative is met with silence, control, and suspicion. In this episode, we explore what it means to be micromanaged, misunderstood, and stuck in survival-mode leadership — and how to reclaim your power anyway.
We begin with the story of Frank Farian — the voice behind Boney M and Milli Vanilli — and draw a surprising parallel to a modern-day workplace dilemma.
This episode is about power, perception, and what happens when people refuse to stay small.
Episode Five - The Myth of the Job Board
In this episode, we start with the radical Oneida Community—a group that rejected the rules of the modern economy—and use their story to examine why today’s job boards fail so many of us. We explore how technology has transformed hiring, why unemployment is often a systemic mismatch—not a personal failure—and what both job seekers and employers can do to find alignment in a confusing market.
It’s time to stop waiting to be picked. Start thinking like an entrepreneur.
Episode Four - The Trap of Being the Best (and completely miss the point)
We open with a reflection on Yevgeny Prigozhin—the mercenary boss who flew too close to the sun—and what his downfall says about loyalty, usefulness, and power. From there, we dive into something closer to home: the trap of being the best at your job. Especially in customer service, hospitality, and retail, being the go-to person can sometimes mean you never get the chance to grow. You're too valuable where you are. In this episode, we talk about how being excellent isn’t always enough, and how performance without power or direction can leave you stuck. Hosted by John Fialkowski | Career Coaching with John
Episode Three - Maybe it's not them - Maybe it's me!
Feeling out of place at work? If you're the only one struggling while everyone else seems fine, the problem might not be the workplace—it might be misalignment. This episode explores how to recognize when a job just isn’t the right fit and what to do about it. We also compare a the struggles of a 19th century British General, with the modern struggles of today.
Episode Two - Intention
In this episode, we’re talking about how to take control of your career—no matter where you work. It’s not just about having an entrepreneurial mindset; it’s about setting an intention and using it to guide your actions. I’ll break down how to define what you actually want, track your progress, and turn any job (even the ones you don’t love) into a stepping stone for something bigger. Because no matter who pays you, you work for yourself. Let’s get into it.
Episode One - What does it take to think like an entrepreneur
Hate your job? Feel like you're being pushed around, undervalued, or stuck in a toxic environment? Quitting might seem like the only way out, but there’s another option—shifting your mindset. Thinking like an entrepreneur, even while working for someone else, can help you take back control, make your job more bearable (or even better), and open doors to new opportunities.
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