New Episode - Let's get him back into it - With Vince Ciarlo and Brian Epstein

Episode Nineteen - Let's Get Him Back into It

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We open this episode with a side note on Raymond Chandler — a writer who reinvented himself when the world shifted beneath him. Out of job, out of structure, he disciplined himself to write and, in doing so, created Philip Marlowe — a character who could move through uncertainty with purpose.

That thread runs through this conversation.

In this episode, I sit down with Vince Charlo, a communications professional and educator who has watched his industry change rapidly. Immigration policy shifts impacted enrollment in Ontario colleges. Academic hours dried up. Digital media reshaped expectations. He retrained. He completed a master’s degree. He adapted.

And still, he feels behind.

Alongside guest coach Brian Epstein, we explore what happens when the structure that once defined you disappears. This isn’t just about job applications. It’s about identity, relevance, and momentum.

 

As the conversation continues beyond the recording date, two questions become central:

What is the problem here?
And how can we solve it with the tools we actually have?

The problem isn’t a lack of experience. It’s a loss of clarity. Vince doesn’t just need a job — he needs to reconnect with how his skills solve real problems in today’s world.

We experiment with a different approach:

  • Define a clear professional value proposition.

  • Treat every job posting as someone else’s problem.

  • Rewrite it through that lens.

  • Apply as the solution, not the supplicant.

In a world hungry for effective communication and thoughtful leadership, there is space for experience — if it is framed properly.

This episode is about regaining that frame.

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You design and deliver inclusive, human-centered learning experiences that strengthen communication, belonging, and intergenerational understanding. You bring together the precision of a seasoned communicator, the insight of an educator, and the lived expertise of a community advocate to help organizations create safer, more connected spaces.
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Guest: Vince Ciarlo

Podcaster Luca Volentir

Vince Ciarlo - Toronto based Speaker, Community Advocate and Public Relations Professional. (Photo: Sean Leber)

Guest: Brian Epstein

Podcaster Luca Volentir

Brian Epstein: Executive and Career Management Coach.

Your Host: John Fialkowski

John Fialkowski - Host of Career Coaching with John
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Music Credits:

Introduction

Like Black Coffee  by Onion All Stars on Pixabay

Intermission

Sista Jane–  by Lopkerjo  Free Music Archieve, licensed under a Attribution 4.0 International License.

Less is More by Lesiakower rom Pixabay

Outro

The Midnight Delight  by MonkeyBandito from Pixabay

Theme from the 90's by Lesiakower from Pixabay

Written By: John Fialkowski

Published: February 13th, 2026

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